Crusing With My Cow.
The story of Niulang( cowherd) and Zhinuv is widely spread in China, and legend has it that they were a couple who were not recognized by the Chinese society at the time, and they could only meet once a year due to theocratic punishment, and on the day they met they would meet at the Magpie Bridge in the sky. Therefore, the relationship between them is regarded as a symbol of love, tenacity and loyalty, and this day is also regarded as a valentine's festival in China.But is it too cruel for humans to endure the relationship of seeing each other once a year? Should them have to endure more than they gain from it in order to stick to their relationship? Intimacy is stereotyped by such narratives, while erotic is despised as a human instinct.
和我的牛野战
牛郎织女的故事在中国广为流传，传说中牛郎和织女是一对不被当时的中国社会认可的情侣，由于神权的惩罚他们一年只能见面一次，见面的这一天他们会在天上的喜鹊桥相会。因此，牛郎织女的关系被视为爱情坚韧忠贞的象征，而这一天也被视为情人的节人。
但忍受一年见面一次的爱情是不是对人类太过残忍？牛郎和织女理应为了坚守爱情而承受更多的寂寞?亲密关系被这样的叙事刻板化，而情欲/爱欲作为人的本能被轻视。
by Daoguang Wen